Christian First / Coach Second

“People look at me and see a calm, cool guy on the sidelines and I want them to know

that my Christian faith affects my coaching and everything I do.”

– Tony Dungy

(1955- ) NFL Coach

The principles of coaching, success or behavior are universal.  They are the same for everyone and when followed they always work.  It is like the laws of nature.  It does not matter if you believe in them or not, jump off the roof and you will hit the ground - every time.  But there is a law that is above all others and it too is universal, however, many do not feel the need to follow or apply it and yet still have success.  Sadly they are mistaken.  This is the law of God.

                Those who read this blog are for the most part Christians.  That is the group I am writing to, Christian Life Coaches.  The title Christian is not to distinguish them as religious coaches.  The principles they teach and give to their clients are for coaching anyone.  The title Christian says who they are not what they do.  And that makes all the difference.

                As Christians we are held to a higher standard in all we do.  That is because we live our faith, not use it as a tool to help people get their life together.  As a coach, I desire to see people be all they can be and to fulfill their purpose for living.  As a Christian, I do not believe that is possible outside of a relationship with Jesus Christ.

                You can learn the principles of success and not have a faith in Christ, but that knowledge will only take you so far.  You cannot fully live a successful life and not know the one who designed you to live that life.  Think of it like being married to someone you have ever met or seen.  You may have something that says you are married; and you may say to others that you are married, but there is no marriage because there is no relationship.

                I know many Christian coaches who do not use the word Christian in the promotions thinking that will "scare" non-Christians away.  I have many clients that are not believers, however, each one know not only of my faith but their need for a faith of their own.  I would not be telling them the truth if I was to say they can succeed without knowing Christ.  It is leaving out the true key of all success.

                Coaches must also remember that it is not a spiritual thing.  It is never a case that a person can believe in any god they choose and be okay.  Jesus said that no one - No one - comes to the Father but through Him.  If I was to say otherwise I would be lying to my clients and doing them great harm.

                Remember that we are Christians first and foremost, and coaches second.  This does not mean you have to evangelize every person you see before you coach them.  It does mean that you are honest and forward with them that the key to all success and fulfillment is in Christ Jesus.  Then it is up to them to decide.  Live your faith at all times.  You will have moments when you are not a coach but you will never have a moment that you are not a Christian.

John Patrick Hickey is an author, speaker, and Life Coach. To read more from John Patrick Hickey or to get his books, training and book him to speak to your church, business or group, visit our website at http://www.growthcenter.net or www.johnpatrickhickey.com.   © 2014 John Patrick Hickey